Do you make someone your ideal person because your ideal person doesn’t show up?
Feel and trust your senses 💎✨ that’s all there is to it.
You are free to set your ideals high 💝
But I think it’s a little different to order your ideal person from someone else because he/she doesn’t appear.
I was taught to distinguish between selfishness and just being as you are.
Selfishness is not accepting the other person’s freedom.
Being as you are means accepting your freedom and the other person’s freedom.
You are free to enhance your own ideals.
And others have the freedom of others.
Let’s get away from anyone who tries to order you around, control you, or change you!