What is Unconditional love?

What would your ideal lover be like?
What would your ideal child be like?
What would your ideal boss be like?

When you think about your ideal object, do you come up with many conditions?

When you find someone who fits those conditions perfectly,
What would happen if those conditions were removed from that person?

Would you dislike him/her because he/she is different from your ideal?

On the other hand, there is also pressure to make someone like you because of your conditions.

This pressure can lead to the thought that “those who cannot do are worthless.

It’s sad when someone think like this.

What we unconsciously do to someone else, we often unconsciously do to ourselves.

• I must be able to do this.
• I have to do this.
• I must not do this.

You are worth it just for existing.
No matter what you can or cannot do, no matter what shape you are, no matter what you look like, you are loved.

If there’s something you can’t forgive, there’s a reason for it in you.

If you can accept yourself as you are, more people may say, “I like you just the way you are.”

Is it better to fix yourself “this is the way it has to be” or is it better to be “just the way you are”?

Either is fine. You can choose whichever you like.